I only see my judgement, I don't see the child in front of me , I only see my judgements I have about him. And my judgements are wrong, as I judge myself wrong and I judge him wrong. How can I judge him right when I judge myself wrong? What ever I see is my judgements, I can't see the pillar in front of me , I only can see my judgements about that pillar, I can see an object which is strong, thick, cold and some logical judgements of it. I can't see anything of this polar beyond my perceptions or what I have heard about it. I can't see truly what is there. I want to let go the judgements , so the true vision substitute, so I can see.